first let me say that god having a cold is something that i don't like if not hate .. i am getting better thank god but slowly grrrr
so i was in bed in allot of my time up till now and i did allot of thinking!
so here are few points about relationships, str8 marriage's, divorce, and gay marriage that i thought about lately and i want to share with u but ! some things will might upset people so u can stop reading the post if u are affraid of what i might say ...
shell we start with relationships and str8 marriages ?
reltationships and marriages are like packages we can't take out what we don't like in our partners we have to deal with the good things and the less good things that our partners have and the other way around ...and we have to learn that we are all having sides that others will might not like thats just a fact ...
people sometimes leaving their partners and think "oh in my next relationship i won't have to deal with these sort of problems and it will be perfect"well let me tell u this people: every relationship in different so u will might not have the same problems as u had with your exe and u will might have a perfect relationship for a short time but with time u will see that u will have other problems with your partners cause lets face it we are all human !and thats something that people can't take
lets talk about divorce
why allot of str8 couples are getting a divorce ?
is it because that its the easyer thing to do! instead of dealing with their problems its easyer to just close the door instead of asking "whats wrong here and how we can fix it? "allot of them don't look or care for answers so they get remarried and divorce again and some are not learning the lessons ... some str8 couples and str8 people take allot of things for granted and think "well, now hes gone", "now shes gone i am free"really? are u? don't forget u had a partner to share your life and problems with and now you are all alone dealing with the shit... u think its better? maybe for the short run not for the long run....we are all want to love and be loved !
people saying all the things that u say in a wedding day like "till death do us part"(M/L recorded a song with the same title for her "Like A Prayer" album check it out! ) but its more like"till we will get a divorce"!whats the point of getting into a relationship and a marriage if u want out ?
for the divorce rates here are the numbers in the U.S only !
the dicorce rate in America is 50 %!
According to enrichment journal on the divorce rate in America:
the divorce rate in America for first marriage is: 41 %
the divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
the divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%
so in short str8 couples maybe can just **** and make baby's but live together? dream on ! its harder for them to do so
gay marriage
so why people are against gay marriage ? because some gays don't take things for granted because u won't see a such a high divorce rate as u see in str8 marriages and str8 people will be ashamed with that fact that same sex couples can make their realationships work and str8 couple can't! its not the word "marriage"that str8 bigots are worry about its just their image it's simple as that !
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